Only flirt with a girl if you are pretty confident that she likes you.
If you are sure she does not like you, do not try to flirt with her to get her to like you. You will just be pushy and it will ruin the chance of you two even being friends because she will feel that uncomfortable being around you.
If you are unsure if she likes you, check out my post on “How To Know If She Likes You” first.
1. Even just a simple “Good morning” text can do you more than you may think. It will show her that you thought of her and wanted to make her feel special. Or a “Did you eat lunch yet?” text and if they have not eaten yet, it possibly gives you the chance to bring her something to eat and to spend time with her. She will take this as you care about her and may want to be more than friends.
2. When you do see her, smile. Express that you are happy to see her. Smile and say you missed her. Even if it’s in a small joking kind of way, she will know you’ve been thinking about her.
3. When you walk by her, put your hand faintly on her back. Don’t do it every single time you walk by her, but a time or two when you do see her. Touch her in some way slightly if you can.
4. Give her eye contact. Try to look at her in the eyes, but don’t let your mind wander off. Focus on what she is saying to you, show her how much you care. Keep an eye out for her facial expressions. She may also be smiling at you while your talking, which means she is admiring you.
5. Ask her about her life, things going on, something not materialistic, but something meaningful. Catch up on a topic from before to show her you listened and paid attention. This is a way to flirt with her but to also show that you care about what is on the inside of her too.
6. Bring her flowers or something she really likes or have them delivered to her. You really can’t go wrong with flowers and if she ends up telling you she doesn’t like flowers, then next time send her chocolates (or a muzzle, just kidding!) But if you have been to her house or gotten to know her at all, then you will probably know by now if she likes flowers or not or what she does like.
7. Make time for her. Show her you care and can open up time for her. This is a way to flirt with a girl to let her know your schedule is open and all you need to know is when and where. Nothing will make a girl feel better than knowing your time is always available to her.
8. Compliment her. If she is dressed up or dressed down, tell her that she looks beautiful. If she is sad, remind her that it will get better. Support her mentally and emotionally.
9. Hold the door open for her and always let her walk ahead of you. This will be a flirtatious sign to her and will remind her that you are a gentleman and are going to protect her.
It can be hard to flirt with a girl, especially at the unknown stage before an actual relationship with one another. As long as you are respectable about the way you flirt with her then that is all that truly matters.
A good woman will not get mad or upset with you for trying to flirt, they will only get upset when they tell you not to or have made it clear by now that they do not like you in that way.
If you have done these ways of flirting already with her, and she never said to stop, then keep doing them.
One day, they will turn into something bigger. And if you haven’t, ask her out on a date or to do something with you. There is no harm in that!
Til next time, from me to you.
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